if you want to live your whole life free from pain
如果你想一生摆脱苦难
you must become either a god or else a coupes
你就得是神或者是死尸
consider other men''s troubles
想想他人的不幸
that will comfort yours
你就能坦然面对人生
as fruit needs not only sunshine but cold nights and chilling showers to ripen it, so character needs not only joy but trial and difficulty to mellow it. (hugh black, american writer)
水果不仅需要阳光，也需要凉夜。寒冷的雨水能使其成熟。人的性格陶冶不仅需要欢乐，也需要考验和困难。(美国作家 布莱克 h)
everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the freedom to choose his attitude in any given set of circumstances. (leonhard frand , german novelist)
我可以拿走人的任何东西，但有一样东西不行，这就是在特定环境下选择自己的生活态度的自由。(德国小说家 弗兰克 l)
every tragedy makes heroes of common people. (normna stephens, american writer)
每场悲剧都会在平凡的人中造就出英雄来。(美国作家 斯蒂芬斯 n)
he who allows himself to be insulted, deserves to be. (f.c.comford, british writer)
自己甘愿受辱的人，受污辱也活该。(英国作家 科福德 f c)
i find life an exciting business and most exciting when it is lived for others. (helen keller,ameican writer)
我发现生活是令人激动的事情，尤其是为别人活着时。(美国作家 海伦·凯勒)
in this world there is always danger for those who are afraid of it. (george bernad shaw, british dramastist)
对于害怕危险的人，这个世界上总是 危险的。(英国剧作家 肖伯纳 g)
it is not true suffering ennobles the character; happiness does that sometimes, but suffering, for the most part, makes men petty and vindictive. (william somerset maugham, british novelist)
说苦难能使人格得到升华，这是不确切的；幸福有时倒能做到这一点，而苦难常会使人心胸狭窄，产生复仇的心理。(英国小说家 毛姆 w s)
let us suggest to the person in crisis that he cease concentrating so upon the dangers involved and the difficultie，and concentrate instead upon the opptunity---for there is always opportunity in crisis. (seebohm caroline, british physician)
让我们建议处在危机之中的人：不要把精力如此集中地放在所涉入的危险和困难上，相反而要集中在机会上——因为危机中总是存在着机会。(英国医生 卡罗琳 s)
light troubles speak; great troubles keep silent. (lucius annaeus seneneca, ancient roman philosopher)
小困难，大声叫嚷；大困难，闷声不响。(古罗马哲学家 尼加 l a)
